How to stop panic attacks in five steps

An empty toilet roll saying 'don't panic'

Most people will experience at least one panic attack in their life when they have had a previous experience, which has been really frightening. However, some people suffer from panic attacks on a daily basis. Quite frankly, panic attacks are horrendous! They make you feel frightened, vulnerable and they can be entirely debilitating.

Therefore, today we want to share five really simple and effective steps on how you can manage, remove, reduce or stop your panic attacks entirely in their tracks.

Panic attacks are symptomatic behaviours generated by your internal protection mechanism; your fight or flight mechanism that allows you in situations of danger to fight, flight or freeze. Some of the symptoms you are going to feel if you implement your fight or flight mechanism that then brings on a panic attack are things such as, rapid heart rate, your legs and arms might start to feel numb, dry mouth, sweating, needing to go to the toilet, feeling disorientated and absolutely terrified. The thing is, if you are having a panic attack you have linked your fight or flight mechanism to the wrong thing. Therefore, it is only a perceived danger and not a real danger.

Here are five steps to help:

  1. Appreciate you have engaged you bodies internal protection mechanism. Don’t fight it, thank it.

  2. Change your terminology. Terminology has a huge impact on how you feel. Instead of using the word ‘panic’ which in itself is a really emotive word that will take you to another level of emotion, say it for what it actually is and that is your body trying to protect you. So instead of panic attack, try protection attack.

  3. Take a look around and ask yourself the question, ‘where is the danger and what danger am I in right now?’

  4. Once you have looked around and realised that there is no danger, the next thing to do is to assure yourself, number 1, there is no danger, number 2, you have had a protection attack before and you survived, and you will survive this protection attack too.

  5. Trace your negative feelings and turn them in the opposite direction. You will notice that when you have a protection attack those negative feelings will usually emanate from your stomach and come up to your mouth. Trace those feelings with your hands until you get the rhythm and the speed, and when you feel like you have got that turn them in the opposite direction and then slow them down. By doing that, you will get control of those feelings and they will start to diminish.

For more help on easily overcoming panic attacks, we have a number of videos on our TikTok channel that tackles panic attacks, one of them being the amazing centring technique, 5-4-3-2-1.

Nik & Eva Speakman

We have studied and worked together since 1992. Between us we have studied human behaviour and psychology for seven decades. We both share an uncontainable passion to offer hope and to help people lead happier and less inhibited lives.

After many remarkable breakthroughs we created our own behavioural change therapy, ‘Schema Conditioning.’® Subsequent work with trauma victims and their related symptoms, led to the creation of two further trauma-based therapies.

‘Schema Conditioning Psychotherapy.’®

‘Visual Schema Displacement Therapy (VSDT)’®

‘Visual Schema Detachment & Restructuring (VSDR)’®

Qualifications from the creation of our therapies, resulted in training psychology professors, doctors and masters students at Universities in Amsterdam and Utrecht. In 2015, this training produced the two sets of scientific studies conducted into the workings of our therapy; the first two study papers highlighting the remarkable efficacy, was published in the Journal of Behaviour Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry in June 2019. A further third study was then published in the European Journal of Psychotraumatology in April 2021, with a fourth clinical study with hospital patients is currently underway and will be completed by the end of 2022.

In addition to members of the public, we work with, and have treated many high-profile clients and ‘A’ list clients around the world, having had prodigious successes. We are resident therapists on ITV’s multi award-winning ‘This Morning’ and have been for over a decade, we have also had own television shows, one of which, ‘The Speakmans’, also aired on ITV and several countries worldwide. Over the last two decades we have appeared on numerous other television shows as experts, such as the multi award-winning Saturday Night Takeaway.

Our mission is to illuminate that there is ALWAYS HOPE and that overcoming trauma and improving quality of life is entirely possible. Many people have either never been given hope, or worse had hope taken away from them, our aim is to correct that by sharing our message in any way we possibly can, including live workshops, theatre tours, books, podcasts, radio, television, social media and YouTube.

At the heart of all we do, is our relentless mission to offer HOPE to as many people as we possibly can.

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